Hey.... Could someone not new help me? =(

yeh... I'm new....
I'm just wondering where I can get battles easisly and stuff, I don't want to spend ages finding people on youtube or whatever to battle, or if theres some chat I can join where lots of people are there, and its live so I can just ask for a battle, and anyone there might agree....
I'd like to start proper battling and things, and I'm not a total noob, but I'm unexperienced cus of the above problems....
I'd be very grateful if someone not sucky could help

Welcome to DL. There's quite a few ways around here to get battles.

The chat box where there's usually quite a few people active.
http://xat.com/distortionleague

Or, you could challenge the league, and you can find most of the Gym Leaders, including me on the xat.

Good luck!